«Я слабая и уязвимая»: Хейли Бибер поделилась страхами с подписчиками

«Вступая в 2019 год, я хочу быть более открытой в отношении того, с чем я борюсь, и позволить себе быть ранимой».

Двадцатидвухлетняя модель начинает 2019 год с решительного и откровенного поста о себе. В нем она делится с нами своими страхами, опасениями и сомнениями, показывая, что никто не идеален.

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stepping into 2019 I want to be more open, I want to be more open about the things I struggle with, and be able to be more vulnerable. I’m a 22 years old, and the truth is no matter how amazing life may look from the outside I struggle... I’m insecure, I’m fragile, I’m hurting, I have fears, I have doubts, I have anxiety, I get sad, I get angry. I have had more days than I can count where I’ve found myself scrolling through Instagram comparing myself, comparing my looks, feeling like I’m not good enough feeling like I lack so many things and really struggling to be confident in who I am because I constantly feel like I’m just not good enough. Every single day is a confidence battle for me. I’m not writing this for a pity party or for sympathy but just to simply say, I’m a human.. I’m a young woman, I’m learning who I am and, it’s REALLY FREAKING HARD. It’s hard finding who you are, but what’s even harder is being picked apart and compared to other women while trying to do that. There are days that I’m simply broken because of it. It would be incredible if other young girls and women could find it in themselves to lift each other up, to stop making other women who are struggling JUST LIKE THEM, feel incompetent and less than. We ALL have flaws, and that will never change. What I do know is, God made us individuals for a reason, with our own beauty, our own personalities, and our own story because there’s a specific plan and purpose for each and every human created and he makes no mistakes!! So this year I’m gonna do my very best to just be ME and be confident with who I am. Cause I am enough, and I’m loved, and you are enough and you’re loved.

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Хейли пишет, что ежедневно она старается стать уверенней в себе. Сравнивая себя с чужой внешностью, материальным положением и другими мелочами «лучших» людей, мы начинаем чувствовать себя недостаточно «идеально». То, что мы постоянно окружены мнениями из соцсетей, не улучает ситуацию.

«Я не уверенна в себе, я слабая, я уязвимая, у меня есть страхи, у меня есть сомнения, я бешусь, я грущу, я злюсь», – продолжает модель.

Она говорит, что у всех есть недостатки. Все мы разные и по-своему уникальные. У каждого из нас своя история!

«Деньги и слава делают вас образцом для подражания, но в то же время – целью. Люди хотят, чтобы вы были совершенны, и это тяжело».

Девушка завершает: мало того, что приходится бороться с собственной неуверенностью, так еще надо не принимать близко к сердцу комментарии окружающих.

Хейли призывает нас быть чуточку доброжелательнее, отзывчивее и мягче. Достойный совет, как считаешь?

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I was reading the most loving and cute comments under Hailey's last instagram post when i found myself reading shit. Having money, having fame, being married with the most young famous artist on earth and not having a kidney transplant doesn't mean anything. You can have it all but that will never make you a confident person, that never will make you feel you are enough, that you are beautiful, because no matter what we ALL have insecurities and low self esteem. Having money and fame it only makes you a target, people want you to be perfect, to be a role model. Sometimes is hard, Hailey has always been an insecure woman just like any of us, and she is constantly going through this but being compared to other girls in every move she does it's only making harder for her because she doesn't have to deal with her own insecurities but she has to deal with what people are saying about her. Have some respect to EVERYBODY not only with the people who wrote paragraphs about how they feel. This world need to have more empathy to the other. We can't be disrespectful or hateful towards someone we don't know, towards someone we don't know what she/he is going through. Think before comment nonsense under a photo, think before saying something hateful to someone. "Insignificant" words can break someone inside. Be loving, be kind because being selfish and hateful will never make you a better person, you will just ruin yourself. #haileybaldwin #haileybieber

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